Being talkative

Some are adherent to the thought that being very talkative can spot you out in the crowd and show some highlights but me when threw some light on this thought yielded some conclusions which would be shared here with you all.

You can talk how much ever you want provided listeners are there but only make sure that they are not compelled to do so.
Talking more is not the key for relationship but it is the essence of your talk which attract the people towards it .
It matters how you love each and every words you deliver and you make others do so which would result their love for you .

Some in the corporate world say that that if you are not talking what you do you are not doing anything .This is a glorified thought when others can recognize what is done.

The solution is you can talk more if you have something to talk which you can find out when you work with heart.

A person who is talkative and if his talking contents are of no use then it may be treated as noise ."Beware of noise talkers.Keep a distance with them".

Somebody talk to attract attention which is pure nonsense where in the caught attention can harm you a lot in future.

So ultimately be "Talkative with Care"

Friendship and Formalities

We all establish a number of relationships in our day to day life. Here I am giving you a glimpse of thought to make all of us understand our relationships better. Let us think a little bit backwards when ever you say "Nice to meet you" to someone.Let your consciousness digest whether it was really nice to meet that person.Most of the time you get a "No".Why is it so?.Why we are again and again saying that without realising?.Our idea at that moment will be to establish a relationship with that person .But we are not consciously aware of making it real.We are most automatic at that moment with the impact of formality.We try to say most of the things out of formality.It is where we try to fool ourselves by opening up reactions for the sake of formality.But will the relationship stands for a long time. Surely no because formal relationships are always formal.Friendships taking birth out of these formalities will also be formal. Then here we will have to find what a real friendship can offer. Of course this requires some elements of heart to really understand this.

Life is not about compromising to situations,it is all about understanding the situation and this understanding can come from our true heart.We all are moving with expectations, we are always looking through the eyes of expectations.Then all what we see will become our own reflection which is actually not real. Establishing true friendship and relationship requires true understanding of ourselves and broadening our vision to the outside world .Try to see everything as it is and everyone as they are ,then you will understand what relationship is. It is nothing but harmonizing yourself with the outside world by remaining as you are. It is all about creating true music by synchronisation.Try to make at least one best relationship a week then you will find the real charm.throw out formalities it has not to do anything in your life it is just a mask.Try to understand everything and fetch the dynamics of life