We all establish a number of relationships in our day to day life. Here I am giving you a glimpse of thought to make all of us understand our relationships better. Let us think a little bit backwards when ever you say "Nice to meet you" to someone.Let your consciousness digest whether it was really nice to meet that person.Most of the time you get a "No".Why is it so?.Why we are again and again saying that without realising?.Our idea at that moment will be to establish a relationship with that person .But we are not consciously aware of making it real.We are most automatic at that moment with the impact of formality.We try to say most of the things out of formality.It is where we try to fool ourselves by opening up reactions for the sake of formality.But will the relationship stands for a long time. Surely no because formal relationships are always formal.Friendships taking birth out of these formalities will also be formal. Then here we will have to find what a real friendship can offer. Of course this requires some elements of heart to really understand this.
Life is not about compromising to situations,it is all about understanding the situation and this understanding can come from our true heart.We all are moving with expectations, we are always looking through the eyes of expectations.Then all what we see will become our own reflection which is actually not real. Establishing true friendship and relationship requires true understanding of ourselves and broadening our vision to the outside world .Try to see everything as it is and everyone as they are ,then you will understand what relationship is. It is nothing but harmonizing yourself with the outside world by remaining as you are. It is all about creating true music by synchronisation.Try to make at least one best relationship a week then you will find the real charm.throw out formalities it has not to do anything in your life it is just a mask.Try to understand everything and fetch the dynamics of life
3 comments:
But I cant follow you. How can we avoid formalities.No friendship will last until death. It will always change. They raise, fall and decline like emporers and civilisations.
present theory with photo's it takes near to reality,......
I agree with u and I do not deny the earlier posted comments.... But I think when u really meet a stranger and if the chemistry matches, even if u didn't say anything at first u can develop a gud friendship...
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